Nancy Fenn's Sympathetic Other Woman Survey

age =: 44

name for married lover: Chad

make up a name for you: Ellie

how did your relationship get started =: He was staying at the same hotel on business

how long did it last =: 3 mos

how did it end =: Wife found texts

would you do it again = : No

never done this before =: Yes. He had a 2 date fling 6 yrs. prior.

did he have any kids =: Yes. He had a 4 and 5 yr. old. Yes, he stated if it weren't for the kids he would be gone.

did you know his wife before or gret to know her?: No, I did not know her. We never met.

did you ever contact his wife = : No

spend a lot of money on you =: No

what did he promise you =: We were making future plans together. He arranged his work schedule to spend more time in my area. We were planning on my moving to his area next yr., organizing work plans and family plans around our ability to negotiate a relationship together.

did you want to marry him or just have the affair =: I wanted him. Absolutely. We made big plans together. He was tied to his wife by history, attachment and kids, but did not believe she was capable of loving him. No, I never pressed him for divorce.

are you still in contact with him = : No