tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662976078715097584.post541102448504435193..comments2023-08-28T08:17:05.155-07:00Comments on Queen of Wands: The Myth of Helios and Phaet(h)onQueen of Wandshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09702396344666440280noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662976078715097584.post-48083401056787497732008-07-20T13:10:00.000-07:002008-07-20T13:10:00.000-07:00I have seen this happen with fathers and sons. So...I have seen this happen with fathers and sons. Some say it's a "weak" son, others that it is the first son, or the second, or the last. I think it's when a son threatens the father in his greatest area of strength/vulnerability.<BR/><BR/>Fathers are not nurturers. Some call it male-nurturing, but there needs to be another name for it, because it is not nurturing. It is trial by fire.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes the son prevails and outdoes the father. Sometimes the son takes to drink or drugs. Sometimes he crosses over to find the sun.<BR/><BR/>I saw a grandfather the other day in the store. His grandson must have been 4 or 5. He was agitating for candy or gum. The Grandfather turned to him and said, "YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY MONEY."<BR/><BR/>I love your blog.<BR/><BR/>SInce I 'm a dating coach and help people find their mates, and also deal with blended families and step kids. I rely on the myths and fairytales. There is also "the wicked step mother."<BR/><BR/>Grim is reality. We hope to find the sun.<BR/><BR/>Love and peace,<BR/><BR/>Susan<BR/>The Dating Coach<BR/>http://datingcoachblog.wordpress.comSusan Dunn, M.A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10611548840838282923noreply@blogger.com